Of course, sometimes your sex scene will be, or involve, conversation.
There is no surer way to kill the erotic buzz than to use these terms, which call to mind—my mind, at least—health classes in the best instance and in the worst instance venereal disease.
Step 9: It takes a long time to make a woman come.
What words would they use? Step 11: Contrary to popular belief, people think during sex.
Remember, part of the intent of a good sex scene is to arouse the reader.
Step 10: It is okay to get aroused by your own sex scenes.